My relationship with my mother is not the best...she is always calling me and leaving message for me to call her and I don't want to. I already know what the conversaton is going to be like (her: oh I just called to see what ya are doing...we just sitting up in the house....how is the baby(yell at one ofher other kids)...ok I'm going to go lay down). I don't want to hear any of that...honestly only thing I want to hear from her is "I can come out and help ya if you need some help" or kets have a big family picnic or something.
Her conversations are depressing to me and sometimes reminds me of how far she has fallen...please don't get me wrong she is my mother and I love her but I can't always be there for her (like I had to when I was younger) now I need help and support. She calls me like 3 times a day and I just ignore the calls cause I don't even want to pick up..the voicemails are the same generic msg she leaves. I have told her I'm in school and not always able to talk but I do see she has called. ....ugh
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My mother would not come it I had a picnic. To the other question...dang lol but I have expressed to my mother how I seriously need help and her response is not helpful. she trys to switch it up and blame me for the problem. She may say "see thats what I mean if you were out here i could help you more". I know that is damn lie. I hate the city we are from and my mother is currently not in the best living situation. She can't drive out here because she never had gas $$ even if I offer she mentions how she has to do something with one of the other kids....There is always some reason she just can't help me and it's always my fault. I have tried asking her to move out here but she rather stay homeless where she at. I dont get it.
Answer by tootoobusy at 9:09 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Answer by Gingerwheel at 9:34 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Answer by odessie at 10:11 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
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