Okay so yesterday I asked the question "How important is it to let your husband know you are no longer satisfied with your sex life?" So I took your advice and just came out and told him "I'm not satisfied" not in an accusatory way or anything....now alot of you made the assumption that it was the quality of sex that I'm unsatisfied with...my fault since I didnt really add a whole lot of details lol..well that's not the case..when we do have sex it's almost always awesome...the problem is we hardly ever have sex! I'm sexually frustrated as fuck and masterbating just aint getting it anymore...in the last month we've had sex 3 times! THREE!
I know your advice will be to just pounce on him, wake him up with a BJ, dress sexy, let him catch me coming out of the shower dripping wet, yadda, yadda....yeah I've done all of the above and then some...he will literally push me away and to tell you the truth it's really starting to hurt my feelings...like I'm tearing up just talking about it...when he doesnt push me away from giving him a bj, thats all he wants, he doesnt want to progress it to the sex part.
Yes I DID tell him how I feel, that it was hurting my feelings, I asked him if he was still attracted to me (I know my body isnt what it used to be) he said that he is still attracted to me, that he didnt realize he was doing it (no reason as to WHY he's doing it though) he told me how much he loved me, then he got all misty eyed and asked me if I was going to start cheating on him (rolls my eyes) and he told me that we would have sex later that night when the kids go to sleep....later that night comes and when I ask him again he tells me "Not tonight, I'll get you in the morning" I thought I was going to run screaming into the night tearing at my hair!!!!! Do I really have to tell you that nothing happened this morning either?
Am I wrong to feel like now that I'm married I shouldnt have to beg for sex? That I shouldnt be going without as often as I am? Please don't tell me that sex shouldnt be this important to me because the fact is that it IS this important to me. Sorry.
Okay so I've tried all the sexy tricks in the book AND just flat out told him I wasnt satisfied and why...now what do I do?
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