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A married man.....

Is it wrong to date a married man who is going through a divorce, and still lives with his wife?......

If so....Why?


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Asked by Anonymous at 4:29 PM on Jul. 3, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (27)
  • Not sure how to I'll bump

    Answer by oregonduck at 4:30 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • His living situation would make me question if he was really going through a divorce....or just telling me a story....

    Answer by blueberry1 at 4:31 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • There are a lot of variables that go into this.

    Are you positive they are getting divorced?
    Why are they still living together?
    What sort of living arrangement do they have?

    If you know they really are getting a divorce, and the relationship is irreconcilable, then I don't see a problem with dating him.

    Answer by Mom2theboy1994 at 4:32 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • yea, because they could change their mind about the divorce. Once he's moved out completely, then it's okay

    Answer by danichaos at 4:32 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • um.. idk. Maybe to a certain degree. I mean if he is "unsure" about it than yes. He needs to figure out what he is doing for sure before he dates. he has to be in the middle of filing, seperated for awhile and living on his own. NOT SUPPORTING HIS soon to be ex wife in any way that he legally doesn't have to.

    Answer by loudnproud87 at 4:32 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • Wrong if he is getting a Still living with her, yes.

    Answer by MissDanielle92 at 4:35 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • I would have to wonder if he were only saying he was divorcing his wife. How can you really be sure?

    Answer by treynlisa at 4:36 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • Duh!... he isn't free to date yet.

    Answer by ochsamom at 4:39 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • Is he just telling you they are getting a divorce? That the question that needs to be asked. He may be telling you one thing and the relationship(with wifey) is totally different.

    Answer by babygirl0782 at 4:41 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • I don't know for sure...But, i do know that they have an arrangement, so he says....He says they have not touched each other in 7 years. And they are more like roommates/friends???

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:42 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

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