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TMI: bedroom advice on fourplay? adult content

my bf that ive been with for about 2 months now has never "gone down on me".....ive gone down on him once, and the way i look at it is if your not gonna give, you arent going to receive...whats up with that? i thought guys LIKED that stuff? No, i havent asked him about it or said anything...i dont really know how to put it

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:32 PM on Jul. 3, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Have you spoken to him about your preferences?

    Answer by MrsMWF at 10:34 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • definitely not all guys like that

    Answer by cypressandsage at 10:34 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • Yeah I think you should talk to him about it or suggest 69 then he will get the pic

    Answer by MsPhyllis1985 at 10:35 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • im very softspoken and feel like if i ask itll make him uncomfortable....but i feel like its just a part of sex and its enjoyable! heck, i dont like giving bj's (why do u think its called a blow JOB?) but i do it to please the guy! i feel like he should feel the same way

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:38 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • There comes a time in every woman's life when she has to learn to ask for what she wants!

    Answer by katiemomNY at 10:41 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

  • You need to speak up. You can't expect him to read your mind! ;)

    Answer by MrsMWF at 10:44 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

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