have you ever had someone who is completely gross want to be with you?
Right after i turned 17 a guy who is the son of my aunts best friend has has a crush on me... at the time he was in his 30s ( now early 40s) ... He tried to call me once for a date and my dad told him i was too young to be getting phone calls from a man his age ( i told my dad about it so he would say something to the guy) ...
So now I am in my mid 20s - with a husband and pregnant with my 3rd child... and he is still at it... not in a stalker way but like he acts like he doesnt know I am married, he went away for awhile ( he SAID traveling the world) and when he came back he told his mom to talk to me to go on a date with him... my aunt had to say " uh she is a married woman with children" ...
yesterday my husband and I went out to dinner (with our kids) and the guy and his girlfriend ( who actually has some sort of mental problem) ... came in after us and sat at a table to where everytime I would look up I could see them -- he would be staring at me.. and before long his girlfriend was giving me nasty looks ...
He is a 40-some year old man, overweight, very hairy, no job and lives with his grandparents.. even if I was a single person i still wouldnt be interested... I have told my aunt to just tell him ( since I have actually never talked to him in person besides a "hi") to just stop ..and she says to just play along because it would hurt his feelings...
it actually makes me sick to my stomach and I dont know what to do ... i dont really even have a way I could tell him myself ( because I thought of having my husband even say something) ..
Asked by Anonymous at 11:41 PM on Jul. 3, 2011 in Relationships
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