So my boyfriend has yet to claim me on facebook. He's legally married, but hasn't even spoken to her in nearly a year. He tried a dissolution, but she moved and left no forwarding address. He's trying to get money together to actually get a divorce. He's in the military and there's some rule that he can get in trouble for infidelity, I heard this before I even knew him. So after 3 months of dating I asked he at least change the status from single to nothing. He did. I was annoyed he didn't even come up with it on his own. Now it's been a year and he's still not claiming me. Half of me is like this is so stupid that I care, the other is pissed he can't just do it. We got into a big fight and I told him it pissed me off. He said he was getting around to changing it because there's been no contact with the ex and he won't get in trouble. So how long do I give him? And what do I say or do if he doesn't? If it weren't for this I'd be 100% secure that there was nothing fishy going on. I'm close with his family, I've met his friends, he doesn't have time to cheat on me or anything. But that doesn't mean there isn't some girl he's been chatting it up with on there, you know what I mean?
EDIT ~I was willing to push it to the back of my head, but he's the one that said he was planning to change it. That was a week ago and said he'd do it over the weekend...Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:35 AM on Jul. 4, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Gingerwheel at 2:38 AM on Jul. 4, 2011
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Answer by hnaused2010 at 3:32 AM on Jul. 4, 2011
What you are saying is ADULTRY, in the Military. He does not want anyone to know he is in a relationship. With anyone onther then his wife. He can get in big trouble if caught.
Answer by louise2 at 6:40 AM on Jul. 4, 2011
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