I'm married to a great man. He's away working a lot but it has never been an issue until now. I'm missing him like crazy. I want him home NOW. Obviously that isn't possible and I won't seen him for another three months. I'm craving affection. I want to be wrapped up tight in his arms. I tried talking to him about some of this yesterday but he had other things he wanted to talk about so my feelings got pushed aside. Today we argued a little and he asked me what was going on and I told him if it wasn't important yesterday it's not important today. I shouldn't have said that. I should have told him so he can help me. Before this gets worse. Because it will because I don't know how to stop it.
I met a man who frequents my place of employment. He's a great man too. We've become good friends. He's told me he wished I wasn't married but other than that he has been very respectable towards me. He told me he would not be the man who breaks up a marriage and destroys a family. We've talked a little about our "relationship" although we don't call it that. I'm quite sure this is what one would call an emotional affair. He said he's not sure if I like him or just the idea of him. We've never been alone together. I can see him being a great husband. He's so kind and polite. Loving. I've had people question me about him and I. It worries me that complete strangers will ask me if he's my husband. I told him once that another person asked if he was my husband and he responded with "I can't help the way you look at me and everyone knows it but you." I'm not sure if it's really him that I want or if I'm just projecting my feelings onto him because I'm lonely. If my husband was here, this wouldn't be an issue. I would have never gave him a second thought.
He told me if it was too difficult for me, he would stop coming in. I told him that wasn't necessary. This is my problem not his. So what do I do? Do I quit my job? There is no way I could avoid him at work. Talking to my husband is a possiblilty but there is no way in hell I will tell him about the other 'possible' man. Other than ignoring my feelings ocassionally my husband is a good, loving husband to me.
This has been eating me up for the last few days.
If you feel the need to bash, this is an advance FUCK OFF. :) Have a great day.
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