For about 6 weeks, my husband and I have been having a lot of problems. It seems like we would solve one and another would pop up in its place. We got to the point where we didn't know if we wanted to be together anymore and he stayed in a hotel for a week. He came home and said he wanted to work on the relationship. I still couldn't shake the feeling that something was wrong. He used to be the type of person whoe hardly ever sends a text message and he turned into a text-crazed maniac! It was like his phone was glued to his hand. So I took it upon myself t check his phone and sure enough, he has been texting a girl from work nonstop. They call each other baby, and he's called her sexy and commented on what an attractive couple they make. She has even talked about our daughter, saying how much she misses her! I confronted him and after a lot of yelling and crying, he admitted that it was wrong, he was sorry, and he doesn't want to lose me. He maintains that nothing physical happened between them, but I don't believe him. Since they work together, I know it will be hard to him to avoid her. Do I trust him when he says its over? I told him this was his last chance, and he seems like he really is sorry, but I can't trust him yet. He gets resentful when I ask him questions about it, like whether he's told her its over and when I don't act as if I tust him. I just don't know what I should do. Has anyone been in this kind of situation before?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:18 PM on Jul. 4, 2011 in Relationships
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