My husband and I have been together for 4 years and have 2 children. This weekend I waited on him but he never came home, I kept ringing and texting but no response and finally he contacted me telling me that he just couldn't be a real husband or father anymore and wouldn't be coming home. He said he wasn't cheating we were just not right for him. I mean what the hell? Our relationship hasn't been rocky at all, ever really, we've known each other for 10 years and he's normally an open and kind person and suddenly this? What would you think? What would you do? I'm close to just breaking down now. I don't have my partner any more and he said there's no way he's being near the 'brats' that he supposes aren't even his children. It sounds like he's just making random excuses. Would you presume that he's cheating or what?
I'm just so confused and tired and I just want to go to bed and sleep but I can't because I've got to wait up in case he feels like ringing again like he said he 'may'.
What would you do? I didn't realise I was married to this person. I moved 2000 miles away for him and have no friends or family nearby, nor do I have any money right now as he's withdrawn his money. I own a small business but it was a joint account and he's taken mine as well. I have constant payments coming in so I will be fine in the short term but it isn't our main income and I have no idea how to go about with the legalities of forcing him to pay the payments we BOTH owe. I am just so confused. It's been an awful 72 hours and I'm so close to just ramming my head through a wall.
Has anyone been through the same thing??
Asked by Anonymous at 7:06 PM on Jul. 4, 2011 in Relationships
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