My husband is also away. Dh and I both talk to them when we both happen to be outside. They have a son whose 20 who comes over and helps out with the yard for money but they also help with other things that I don't pay for. Just small things and I watch their pets for them while they are away. Thing is he has told me I was good looking more than once. Then repeatedly asks me if I was mad about anything he said in reference to that. He says he's bored to death since wifes been gone and he's retired. Tells me to come on over and chat. We sit in the garage and talk but its usually midnight. I'm a nightowl and I suppose he is too. He called me the first time around 11 pm because he had gotten some bad news about his daughter and was upset so I walked outside to chat. This time it was july 4th and he invited me over for fireworks. He had a few friends over but they left. He had to go somewhere and said he'd be right back and did I want to come back over. Well I thought his other friend would be there but he was not. It was just me and him talking. He also always offers me wine or beer which he is also having (I did, in a previous casual conversation, mention I loved a little wine every now and then and have became a wine drinker rather than beer and he wanted me to try some wine he had that tasted really good. so thats how the alcohol came into the picture) I know that in the past he has cheated on his wife. Soooo I can't help but to wonder if he's testing the waters with me or does he really just want to chat with me as his neighbor. Tonight he also put his arm around me to hug me twice. So am I being paranoid or am I right to worry about sending out the wrong vibes to him. I did not reciprocate the hug because I just don't feel I know him THAT well. He also suggested I come and hang out with him at his workplace which is a bar/restaurant/pool hall. So what do you think? Just being a friendly neighbor or more so?
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