about him hiding money to purchase a ridiculous amount of fireworks, and pay for them to be video taped?
We have bills to be paid, and our kids need things for home-school.
I've been with him for 15 years, and just can't understand why he thinks it was an okay thing to do.
I don't want my conversation with him to erupt in anger.
I need advice and constructive criticism, not bashing.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:25 AM on Jul. 5, 2011 in Money & Work
Answer by twinsplus2more at 9:32 AM on Jul. 5, 2011
Wow, maybe you should sit down with him and show him what your expenses are and let him try and figure out where the money is going to come from. To me the 4th is such a waste of money anyway, but this is ridiculous. Good luck.
Answer by scout_mom at 9:27 AM on Jul. 5, 2011
Is this a one time thing or does he have a habit of hiding money? If it's a one time thing I'd let it go, we all slip sometimes and spend money on things we think are important at the time but find out later it was a waste. If he makes a habit of this sort of thing than it's a bigger deal. I'd sit down and tell him you don't appreciate him hiding money and he'd feel the same if you did it. I'd work out a budget together so you both have some money to spend on frivolous things without having to consult the other.
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