My Sil ( my husbands sister) was in a car accident with her husband , a car hit their car, killing her husband and causing her a miscarriage ( they had two other children and thank God they were not with them -- they were just coming back from a date night) ...
She is actually holding up ok, just trying to figure out how to piece her life back together and move on with her surviving children.
The car that hit them had 3 teens in it, 2 boys and a girl, the boy that was driving was 18, the other boy was 17, and the girl was 16, all of them were drunk.
As of right now no charges has been filed but the driver ( 18 year old ) was contacted and basically told that he will be in trouble for it, upon this happening his family has been trying to reach out to my SIL so she can make them take it easy on him , ARE YOU KIDDING ME ? Trying to get the person who's life is destroyed to have sympathy for the person who caused it ?
Ok so, they are trying to say he is so young and why ruin his life for a child mistake, well my SIL is only 4 years older than him, her husband was only 6 years older than him, they still had their lives ahead of them too and what about the baby, she had an ultrasound the week before and the baby was completely healthy - but about him he had his whole ahead of him too ! When SIL was 18 she was already married, had their first child and bought a home, she certainly wasnt out drinking and driving ( she doesnt drink , even now) and this guys family is trying to make her think that all "kids" his age do this ...
Even at the funeral they sent flowers with a card that had some sort of quote about how God only takes people when it is there time to go...
It is unbelieveable ! My SIl doesnt want to talk about it, but the rest of her family sure as hell hopes this LEGAL ADULT gets what is coming to him !
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