WEIGHT. i mentioned to him that his sister has gotten pretty big sInce the last time we've seen her. He reply "well youve been warned." this meant ive already been warned that he is not going to want me if i got big like that 200+. Im 5'4 167lb now. I got so angry and told him well dont get in a car accident and get burnt the fuck up because im not gonna want you either. then he gets mad and says well that would be out of my control. undesirable is undesirable i dont care how you got there. this is my thought process any way. (i would NEVER leave him because of his outside appearance btw. i was just trying to make a point) i told him soooo if your dad left your mom because she got FAT, would you be ok with that? no answer on his part. i could be wrong but im almost POSITIVE our vows said for better or worse.
JUST WANTED TO VENT LADIES BUT FEEL FREE TO COMMENT.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:37 PM on Jul. 5, 2011 in Relationships
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What a jerk! IF he really loved you, he would love you no matter what. It is what is on the inside that really counts, not the outer wrapping...... If my hubs ever said that to me my inner bitchzilla would come out and I would be liike "hmmm how much weight have YOU gained over the last 20 years Slenderella? You have packed on the pounds and are not as thin as you once were. So you have a lot of room to talk and give me a warning!". I also would not be so willing to forgive, forget or do much for him (read NO SEX), until he apologized and made it up to me somehow.
Answer by MizLee at 2:20 PM on Jul. 5, 2011