when I was younger and first married at 18 and after having my son and daughter (who are a 13 months apart)... I was very particular about how I pictured my life... even when my husband and i started having problems, i knew that I could never have children with another man, that just seemed disgusting to me, and i knew I wouldnt marry or even bring another man around my kids until they were alot older...
I vividly remember these thoughts ( i am thinking about them now because I found a letter I had wrote back then) ...
My husband and I divorced, and 7 years later I found myself married again and with another set of a boy and girl who are 13 months apart ... again I felt the way i did the first time... I loved our new family and i just couldnt imagine ever starting over again... let alone have any more kids -- 4 was enough for me...
well you guessed it -- 7 years later I am married to someone else, my 5th child is almost 6 months old and I just found out i am pregnant again !!!!!
I never planned them, my first 3 were the only "planned" children ( i am getting "fixed" after this baby too lol) ... But I think how crazy this could be if this child is born when my now youngest gets to that 13 month mark....
Also... all three of my husbands names were Chris ! ( first 2 is christopher, my current is christian)
someone looking outside of my life must think I have some sort of mental problem or something, or that I have planned this sort of life.... and it just makes me feel so silly thinking that all those years ago it made me sick to think of ever having children by different men... and yet here I am not sick at all lol...
( i was also up all night with my youngest, so this might be a sleep deprived post too lol)
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