Why is it that when I suggest us going to my families house for a day my husband has to think about it but when his family invites us to their house or to an event we just automatically say yes?
My mom invited us up to her house for the 4th to go swimming and a bar b que and when I mentioned it to my husband he just looked at me then went ahhhhh, like he was trying to think of a reason why we cant go.
His family invites us to their house for my birthday dinner and he was like sure we will be there. Didn't even ask if that's something I want to do for my birthday just says yes. I'm so irritated over this.
I know my family can be extremly annoying but so can his. His dad yells at our 3 year old almost the entire time we are there and one time he was even throwing grass at her because she didn't like it so he threw more at her. I didn't find out about it until right before we left but if I had saw it I would have said something.
Another time we were there she pulled a chair over to their landing so she could see her aunt doing something and he yelled at her. He said what do you think your doing? This isn't your house! Then when she got upset and I tried to comfort her she said leave me alone so he followed her to where she was at and was yelling at her saying why are you upset with your mom she didn't do anything to you. At the time my daughter was 2 and I was 7 months pregnant. I flipped. Its so hard being around him but whenever they ask us over we go. I don't know what to do other than to start saying no to things that involve his family.
2 weekends ago we went to my friends house and last weekend we were suppose to go to my moms house and he said well the last 2 weekends we did what you wanted when do we get to see my family. Well his parents havent been around. They have been at their other kids house it's not my fault that they were there. They didn't make plans with us. I can't help it if he wants to see them then maybe he should make the plans. Every weekend we have something going on, this weekend it's my bday, next weekend we have a birthday party for his friends kid the following weekend my inlaws are going to my sil birthday party. Any advice???
Asked by Anonymous at 10:47 AM on Jul. 6, 2011 in Relationships
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