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So I just broke up with my bf and now i feel empty is that normal?

I was with my bf for almost 2 yearrs and he controlled everything i did and wanted to do. I finally took that step and broke up with him. Now i feel empty and lost is that normal when ur in a controlled relationship?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:03 PM on Jul. 6, 2011 in Relationships

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  • It's normal even not in a controlled relationship. Good luck mama and keep your chin up!
    Dahis

    Answer by Dahis at 12:04 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • Congratulations!

    --You may not think so now, but it gets better. I've been through it twice.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 12:05 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • thank you, ya i think it will i know it takes time. i just couldnt take it anymore.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:08 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • time helps heal all wounds
    prettynpink343

    Answer by prettynpink343 at 12:15 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • Good for you! I think you know you made the right choice, just stay strong.
    kimigogo

    Answer by kimigogo at 12:27 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • yes its normal because you were being controlled. i'm glad you got out of that situation, now time for you to enjoy your life the way you want to.
    lucky35

    Answer by lucky35 at 1:18 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • I think it's perfectly normal.
    lovingmy4babies

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 1:22 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • thank you everyone. I didnt see what everyone saw when i was living with him but once i moved out and wasnt around him 24/7 i saw it and i had to stop it or it wouldnt have stopped
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:24 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • Perfectly normal. And thank God you didn't marry him. It will be better from here on out :)!
    SecondChances85

    Answer by SecondChances85 at 2:48 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • Good for you! Just keep your head high and keep walking away from him!
    dlee620

    Answer by dlee620 at 7:54 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

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