I am posting this in an attempt to help my grandmother find information. Does anyone know of any good resources for searching for birth families? She was adopted in 1946. She knows her BM last name, but not her first name. She also has 3 pictures that were mailed to her amother before the adoption was unexpectedly closed in 1948. She has since discovered that the lawyer that handled her adoption was suspected of handling 100's of infant and toddler adoptions illegally.
I know this is a very old case and I know it isn't much info to go on, but it is all we have. My grandmother really wants to find her brother though and is getting so frustrated with all the red tape involved in the official channels. Any help with a place to start looking would be much appreciated.
Your grandmother has every reason to be frustrated, the red tape is outrageous. Try these groups:
http://www.cafemom.com/group/14715 The Adoption Reunion Group has a resident "Search Angel". Find her in the sticky posts.
http://www.cafemom.com/group/35065 The Adoption Search Resource Group has loads of information.
Also tell grandma to register on Soundex http://www.isrr.net/registration.shtml
Answer by onethentwins at 7:14 PM on Jul. 6, 2011
Answer by Kellyjude1 at 5:48 PM on Jul. 6, 2011
check the adoption disclosure laws in the state where gma was born and adopted. Some states were late in jumping on the bandwagon to seal bcerts. gma just might have a chance at getting hers with a birthdate in the 1940's.
I used ancestry surname message boards to post that I was looking for the *smith" family in (city, state, and time frame). A genealogist who had helped my uncle with lookups recognised the basic info on the family I had posted and put the uncle in touch with me.
check with post-adoption unit within that state as well. and see if there is any available non-identifying information gma can request. Since you believe the adoption was black market- info may be hard to come by, and it may not be accurate. I'd be looking for other adoptees and nmoms who used this lawyer and see what avenues they've used to obtain info as well.
Answer by adopteeme at 4:27 AM on Jul. 7, 2011
Answer by DJsMommy610 at 5:28 PM on Jul. 6, 2011
Answer by Kellyjude1 at 5:51 PM on Jul. 6, 2011
Answer by susie703 at 4:38 PM on Jul. 7, 2011
Answer by sherribeare at 8:49 PM on Jul. 7, 2011
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