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3 Bumps

Isn't it sad?

How some babies are born and not even wanted and some are wanted but not ever born.


Asked by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Jul. 6, 2011 in Trying to Conceive

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Answers (11)
  • Yes I agree & understand the pain, I've been trying & so far all I've had is one ectopic pregnancy which I lost my left tube because of it then 2 miscarriages, I want to be a mother more then anything & I don't get too but women that don't want kids get pregnant & get to have their babies like nothing. SO UNFAIR!!! =(

    Answer by VanillaBlondie8 at 10:55 AM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • TERRIBLY sad. Heart breaking actually.

    Answer by zoomomto3 at 11:53 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • sadyes


    Answer by musicmom08 at 11:57 PM on Jul. 6, 2011

  • Yes, I had a friend with this problem, she had HPV and had to get a big part of her cervix removed and she was told she would probably never be able to carry a baby to full term, yet she knew so many women that got pregnant after making stupid decisions and resented their kids.

    Answer by AF4life at 12:00 AM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Yes, sad and heartbreaking. I know more people having problems conceiving than who don't. I used clomid for my first two (lost one inbetween). Didn't work when I wanted a third, so did the shots/ultra sound/artifical insemination. Didn't work. Three months later, got pregnant on our own, but no heartbeat. Tried the shot thing again, and again didn't work. Three months later, pregnant with Ryan. So even if you see people out with two or three kids, know that they might have struggled, too. I know that doesn't take away your pain, nothing will but holding your baby in your arms. Stress adds to the difficulty, so as much as you can, try to keep positive. My sister-in-law has endromitriosis (sp?) and just did invitro for the first time. They implanted three eggs. They are at 8 weeks now with one very strong little weed growing and heart-a-beating. Amazing that they got pregnant the first time around. Don't give up!

    Answer by jillie_blueeyes at 12:01 AM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Yes.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:00 AM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • very sad I was saying the same thing.......

    Answer by shawnv4l at 12:04 AM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Yes. I've been through fertility treatments for years and always wondered why that happens.

    Answer by Ashoonik at 12:06 AM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Yes. (((())))

    Answer by ourbabykins at 4:57 AM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • It just hurts and I don't know why I posted this anon. I just felt like nobody else understood the pain. Thank you.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:04 AM on Jul. 7, 2011