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I am not one to be upset by my DH having friends who are girls but...

would you feel wired about this post on facebook?

L****** B***** Lunch with the Entourage :). — with C****** T******* at Olive Garden - B*****, GA.

He has no money so he is either spending what we don't have (after I MADE him a lunch) or this girl is buying...

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:20 PM on Jul. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Ohhh it was her post??? I'd be calling my husband immediately!!! We do not hide secrets like that!! Especially a nicer restaurant like Olive Garden!!!
    CassiRae3

    Answer by CassiRae3 at 2:30 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • I'm the same way i dont mind him having friends that are girs, but i see it as if they wanna be friends with him they have to be friends with you. I make sure of that with my husbands friends i even went on his facebook and friend requested all his friends, whoever did accept would hear it from me.
    AmandaLimage

    Answer by AmandaLimage at 2:23 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • My husband hardly writes anything on social sites like Facebook. If he wrote this, I'd be raising some questions. I trust my husband fully and though he wouldn't have lunch with another woman besides family, if in a weird instance he did, he would be telling me about it and I would know who this girl is very well. Do you know this girl he's going to lunch with?
    CassiRae3

    Answer by CassiRae3 at 2:24 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Nope. Wouldn't be having it. And then boasting about it on FB? uh-uh.

    But, my hubby knows that I find suspision in close friendships with the opposite sex. There are plenty of men for him to be buds with at work, there is no reason he should have to have 1 on 1's with a chick.

    How would he react if I had a "guy" friend who came to visit me everyday while he was at work? Probably not so much . . it would be suspicious.

    I am sorry, mama. I would talk to your hubby about your feelings.
    ImaginationMama

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 2:24 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Are they co-workers? If so.. it could be on the company account.

    If they aren't.. I'd be pissed.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:22 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • It is a co-worker not a boss so no employee account- the employers buy them lunch with a good secret shopper report but they already payed up on that.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:25 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • It was HER post not his. he was tagged in it so it showed up on mine that he was tagged. I have never even heard her name before
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:26 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • I don't trust her, mama.
    ImaginationMama

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 2:27 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • I'm calling him
    I don't trust her either- I trust him- NOT her
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:30 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Hmmmm. I'm not a jealous person and neither is my DH, we both have old old friends of the opposite sex. BUT, this would bug me a tad bit. Especially him not mentioning her name before to you.
    texasgurl33

    Answer by texasgurl33 at 2:37 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

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