Okay my mother in law is not the best person for my child to be around..she abandoned my husband and I when I was pregnant, left us with no food in the house and was never a mother to neither one of us. On top of that when my husband was a baby she gave him up to his father and my husband thinks I should forgive her for the things she's done and let her see my son, BUT she hasn't proven to me that she can be a grandmother and take care of my son if he were to be in her care nor has she stopped the bar/methheaded boyfriend hopping..
She gets her family into and they jump my butt for it and it pisses me off..they all sugar coat everythin she has done...
She wasn't there durin my pregnancy and has been here to see my son once since we came home from the hospital..I'm not sure what to do about the situation. She's not a mother nor a grandmother. Some advice please!
Answer by Musicmom80 at 3:33 PM on Jul. 7, 2011
Answer by Y.B.normal at 3:35 PM on Jul. 7, 2011
Start out slow. with small visits. Dont leave your child alone with her!! Make sure that her visits are supervised by you or your husband. Its normal for him to want to give her a another chance. Not a bad Idea to forgive her because babies do change people. Your child could be exactly what she needs to become a better person. Grandchildren mean so much to grandparents. I watch my mom with all of my nephews and she just shows a different kind of love for them! I would consider trying to start over with her. Let the past be the past and just start out slow!
Answer by DanielleFortner at 3:35 PM on Jul. 7, 2011
Answer by Tess929 at 3:35 PM on Jul. 7, 2011
Answer by scout_mom at 3:36 PM on Jul. 7, 2011
Answer by Y.B.normal at 3:47 PM on Jul. 7, 2011
Answer by Musicmom80 at 3:49 PM on Jul. 7, 2011