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Would you leave him, or wait for him to change?

You have a boyfriend. He starts out real nice to your small children. After a little while, he starts yelling at them constantly. You tell him that you do not like the way he is treating your children and it needs to change. He is nice for a day, then goes straight back to yelling at your kids non stop. DO you discuss it again, or just give him the old heave ho?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:34 PM on Jul. 7, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (23)
  • Get him the fuck out!

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:35 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Peace out!! My kids don't deserve that.

    Answer by sugamama3 at 3:35 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Give him the boot. The yelling is probably his true colors showing through and my kids don't need that kind of jackass in their life.

    Answer by hootie826 at 3:36 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • I'd tell him to get the hell out. My child comes first and there's NO way I'm going to let a man talk to my child like that.

    Answer by onemellowmom at 3:36 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Sadly if they aren't his they always treat them more coldly so if he displays that behavior i'd say so long if not you'll be dealing with it for the rest of your life

    Answer by Tess929 at 3:37 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • What SuperrMommyy said.

    Answer by Y.B.normal at 3:37 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Most men don't change, so that is most likely always how he will be.

    Answer by AF4life at 3:41 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • I'd tell him to GTFO.

    Answer by kaysmomma121110 at 3:42 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • He's not going to change. End of discussion.

    Answer by twinsplus2more at 3:42 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • If he does not like your kids , get rid of him

    Answer by louise2 at 3:48 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

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