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Threesome...sexy or trashy? adult content

Last night there were so many questions about threesomes. And most of the responders seems pretty okay with it.

I am just wondering what others thought.

 

I will clarify, that I am talking in a marriage or other commited relationship.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:19 PM on Jul. 7, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (17)
  • Not okay. I know a lot of men think it would be the most awesome thing ever, but IMO, there's something very special about a relationship between two people that lends itself to being exclusive. It gives each partner emotional security and protection. Threesomes are okay between casual partners, if that's what floats your boat, but not okay for me, within a marriage or long-term two-some relationship.
    judimary

    Answer by judimary at 7:21 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • It is personally not for me, but if it is for someone else, go for it!
    AngieBry

    Answer by AngieBry at 7:21 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Trashy.
    matobe

    Answer by matobe at 7:23 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • with only two choices? trashy.
    dullscissors

    Answer by dullscissors at 7:33 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • trashy!!!
    dancer

    Answer by dancer at 7:34 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • TTTTRRRAAASSSH-SSHHAAYYYY! Trashy!

    In a marriage . . totally trashy. If not married, engaged, or dating, then whatever floats your boat . . . you are free to do as your heart desires.
    ImaginationMama

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 7:37 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • personally I think they're exciting; a great way to spice up your sex life. sometimes the same 'ol same 'ol gets boring from day to day. I must say the couple inviting the third party in has to be very strong or it can cause serious problems. I've seen it from both sides; once an outsider in one a long time ago and now with my DH. we don't do it every day. and we don't just grab someone off the street. we do serious background checking before we proceed. it's a lot of work to find the right person but well worth it if you ask me. I know they're not for everyone and I'm personally not concerned with what others think. everyone is free to do what they want in their own bedroom.
    mmsfirstone

    Answer by mmsfirstone at 7:38 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • I've done them.. fun, but not for someone in a committed relationship.
    danichaos

    Answer by danichaos at 7:38 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • I don't think I could do it but to each their own.

    It can cause soooo many problems.
    Cindy18

    Answer by Cindy18 at 7:46 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

  • Trashy
    jenn4443

    Answer by jenn4443 at 7:48 PM on Jul. 7, 2011

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