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how many kids do u want is it different then what ur dh wants?

i want between one and two my bf on the other hand want like 5 -10

 
butterscotch297

Asked by butterscotch297 at 8:22 PM on Dec. 16, 2008 in Just for Fun

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  • Yeah, I always wanted like 4 or 5. DH wanted 2 but I talked him into 3. lol. I'm now 10 weeks pregnant with number 3 and trying to talk him into number 4. We'll see if I'm convincing enough. But if not, I will be happy with my 3 happy, healthy angels.
    renea20

    Answer by renea20 at 8:31 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • Thisis one of the things that you MUST be on the same page about before the first is conceived...it's a relationship-breaker.

    We wanted two. Ended up with one. We're delighted.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 8:25 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • I am pregnant with our second and I would like one more eventually. I don't think my SO would really care one way or the other if we had another child. He tells me I'm nuts for wanting another after this one, but he's not ambitious enough to stop me! lol
    kabbot01

    Answer by kabbot01 at 8:29 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • We're in complete agreement, 3 more. We've even already named them and agreed on the names 100% too.
    feesharose

    Answer by feesharose at 8:31 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • I definintly don't want another one and he agrees. However if it happened we'd still choose to love him/her and we'd feel it was meant to be even if we don't want another one.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:34 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • Before we were married DH and I knew we wanted at least two kids and I said "maybe 3." He comes from an Irish Catholic family and wants more than 3! After we had our first son though he realized how hard pregnancy, labor, delivery, and caring for a baby really is. Now he is thinking we'll have at least 2 and then maybe do foster care. We'll see. We're pretty much in a holding pattern right now since our son is only 4 months old!
    beckcorc

    Answer by beckcorc at 8:35 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • i want between 4-6 and hubby wants the same :)
    krazyash023

    Answer by krazyash023 at 8:41 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • I wanted 4 children however my husband only wanted one! So we agreed on 2!
    porterjoshua06

    Answer by porterjoshua06 at 8:44 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • i wasnt sure i wanted kids, my ex-boyfriend had one from a previous marriage.

    now theres one on the way, and with some convincing a real man this time i would consider one more. the guy im seeing now wants 2...of his own. hopefully he can learn to love mine and just let me have one more instead of 2.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:01 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • I didnt want kids until I was 25 but one fun night and a bottle of vodka and we got our son, LOVE him to death!!!! My DH on the other hand wanted kids within a year (he got his way). I say 1-2 kids 3-5 years apart and DH says 2-3 children 2-3 years apart. I dont know if I would be able to handle a 2 year old and being Pregnant I could barely handle it the first time.
    ArmyWife112908

    Answer by ArmyWife112908 at 9:20 PM on Dec. 16, 2008