Speaking with myself in mind....
I believe you need to really know the character and past of the lady in question in REAL LIFE. Some of us are older, been around the block a few times and can speak with experience: with joy, pride, and also pain.
It is one thing to speak with confidence and quite another to be arrogant.
Also, I have found if another person is NOT ready to hear what I have to say, that is a typical reaction..."You think you know it all,"
It's all about the self-esteem of the other person, if they are strong enough to hear the truth....and have the manners and flair at this stage of life to listen with an open mind.
at 8:06 AM on Jul. 8, 2011