I haven't made any moves yet or spoken to a lawyer or anything. I'm just curious what other mom's reasons were for choosing sole custody, sole with visitiation, joint custody, or any other agreements I don't know about. I don't want to keep my son from his father, but as far as things like medical decisions, health insurance, a roof over our head, etc, it has always been me. His father doesn't even know the name of our son's pediatrician and doesn't like to take him because "he can't stand waiting". This is just an example. I don't want to seem like a selfish witch if I choose to do sole with visitation, but I am very, very torn as to how to even approach it. I KNOW if I don't do joint, I will get an earful and a half and probably be called some pretty harsh names. Any and all experiences/advice is greatly appreciated! :)Answer Question
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