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If your in a relationship with a guy... who gets mad whenever u dont answer the phone. he gets angry. what is that?? when i dont answer im either at work, busy with my son (i.e. giving him a bath or changing a diaper) hello i cant do neither of those things at the same. and he tells me supposedly that the times i dont answer the phone. that is when is trying to call and feel at ease because he has a bad feeling about something SMH....

he texted me one day and said "i just wanted to see if you would answer... lol. i could care less." and make it so bad the guy is my son's dad....


Asked by Anonymous at 1:09 PM on Jul. 8, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (8)


    Huge red flag!!  Leave this man.  This is a sign of a potential abuser. 


    Answer by layh41407 at 1:15 PM on Jul. 8, 2011

  • my husband used to be like that. it's a control thing and you two need to talk about it and get it straightened out before it gets worse.

    Answer by princessbeth79 at 1:12 PM on Jul. 8, 2011

  • drop him like a sack of hot potatoes.. you don't need that drama in your life.

    Answer by tnm786 at 1:12 PM on Jul. 8, 2011

  • I had this problem with an ex, at first I thought it was sweet he always wanted to check up on me, then it started getting excessive, then he tried to attack me, I agree that this is a HUGE red flag!

    Answer by AF4life at 1:27 PM on Jul. 8, 2011

  • Oh, not good mama. Talk to him, go to counseling, or get out.

    It could escalate.

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 1:30 PM on Jul. 8, 2011

  • Not being judgmental but he sound kinda childish you can't take care of your child with a man that acts like a child what next he's gonna ask you to clean his butt .....just to see what you will say ....don't allow anyone to play games like that.......

    Answer by lovevlj31 at 1:32 PM on Jul. 8, 2011

  • layh41407 hit the nail on the head. Unless you're ready to get hit years down the road, get out now.

    Answer by Ataemommy at 1:44 PM on Jul. 8, 2011

  • my df does the samething sometimes!

    Answer by shanda0914 at 1:55 PM on Jul. 8, 2011