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what would you do?

if you kissed and made out with a friend that you had the hots for. Even if you KNEW it was wrong but it felt right.

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:33 PM on Dec. 16, 2008 in Relationships

Answers (8)
  • If I knew it was wrong, then I probably wouldn't do it, but if I did do it, I would feel incredibly guilty and wouldn't be able to live with myself.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:53 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • Need more information, why is it wrong? Are you married? Is he married? Is he a she? So many reasons it could be wrong!

    Answer by haston at 10:01 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • He is single, I am married. DH isn't home every, cheated on me (thats not why i did it)

    This guy has more in common with me than my dh. I was floating when he kissed me. Does that make sense? I have been together with my DH for 8 years total (on and off) other then dh i have only been with 2 other guys.

    what is going on with me?

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:06 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • What happened is that you acted on an impulse. By "on and off" it sounds like you haven't had a good relationship with your husband to begin with. Have you considered counseling? You've come to a fork in the road. Going to counseling can help you deal with telling your husband, if that's what you choose. I just hope no one mentions it to him if you choose not to.

    Answer by LazyMistake at 10:48 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • yes its wrong your married and even if your DH cheated on you two wrongs don't make a right

    Answer by hautemama83 at 10:48 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • LazyMistake,

    my dh does know this person but doesnt talk to him. DH refuses counciling, i have tried.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:49 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • hautemama83,
    like i stated before, that is not why i did it.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:04 PM on Dec. 16, 2008

  • Then u should think about why u stay in a marraige that obviously are not happy in. I agree with the Two wrongs don't make it right....

    Answer by momgoingoofy at 5:00 PM on Dec. 22, 2008

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