last week my husband and I agreed that it was ok for my best friend of 14 years to stay over night tomorrow night. her kids go to their dad's over night and she hates being alone cause she has epilepsy. my husband was all for it until tonight. He says now he is uncomfortable with her sleeping with me. which previously was agreed upon in case she has a seizure. they switched her meds and she still has some bad ones since she just started new meds. normally her oldest would sleep with her when the kids are home and her kids know to call 911. her mom is out of town this weekend so she cant stay there. he acts like im going to do something with her when neither of us are that way.
just a few days ago him and i got into a fight cause he instisted on spending two hours with this girl from work, he only knew her 2 months. she was upset about her room mate and needed to talk to him alone on a walk. I told him i didnt feel comfortable with him going with some woman i never met before.
he had cheated previously with a co-worker who was just a friend. i have a reason to not trust him 100% but i let him go with that woman for 2 hours.
I just dont get it. why have a problem with my friend now? my dh and her are just as close as her and I are. maybe im missing something. he has know her 12 years, the time him and I been together. why go from being concerned about her health to not trusting us alone together? does he think that we will automatically become gay or something?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:40 AM on Jul. 9, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by BrendaW. at 1:28 AM on Jul. 9, 2011
Answer by pocmom at 12:57 AM on Jul. 9, 2011
I"m sooo sorry your husband is being this way.. I have no idea what his deal is or why he's acting like that..
although.. I went to school with a girl with epilepsy. I would love to share her story with you and maybe you can pass it on to your friend..
Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 1:25 AM on Jul. 9, 2011
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Answer by doloriaw at 1:10 AM on Jul. 9, 2011
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