i told my husband to get out the other day when i found out a secret he's been keeping from me for over 2 years regarding our 2 year old daughter's health. he was responsible for her injury and lied to me about it. ive been spending the past few days racking my brain and figuring out the next step. well, last night i had some friends over. one of them had her daughter here and our daughters were having a sleepover. then there was my best guy friend of 10 years, and his friend who i've known for about 2 years. the girl friend of mine told me that her husband told her (our husbands are good friends) that not too long ago they were at a bar together, my husband got head from some girl and then had a friend take him to another girl's house to get laid. i didn't find this highly unbelievable since he cheated emotionally before. well, last night we all got drunk and i ended up sleeping with the guy i've known for 2 years. i thought i would feel justified in some way for all the hurt my husband has caused me, but this morning i feel awful. i feel first of all like a slut and second like i should tell my husband. although i don't owe him shit since he's hurt me and now recently i'm finding out he hurt my child too. he's suppose to be coming to get his stuff either today or tomorrow and i have this overwhelming urge to tell him and get it off my chest. idk what to do i feel so disgusting about myself.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:45 AM on Jul. 9, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by sugamama3 at 11:51 AM on Jul. 9, 2011
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Answer by trish201 at 12:24 PM on Jul. 9, 2011
I wouldn't tell him, sounds like he'd just use it against you. I'd leave him behind and try to move on.
Answer by skittles1108 at 11:49 AM on Jul. 9, 2011
Answer by sunsetbeach81 at 10:37 PM on Jul. 9, 2011