My dad told me weeks ago that my older sister has skin cancer. I called her and left a message that I was praying for her,she never called me. She is avoiding me! I have had cancer and I did not push anyone away! I wanted my family close all the time! I don't want to be pushy,but I don't know what to do!
Answer by gottalovemal at 5:58 PM on Jul. 9, 2011
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Answer by maxava at 5:53 PM on Jul. 9, 2011
She isn't you, she needs to deal with things in her own way. Be there but be kind and gentle. I'm more like your sister, I don't like having a lot of people around holding my hand when I'm dealing with a difficult situation. It doesn't mean I never want to talk about what I'm dealing with, but I need time to process it first. Continue to call your sister like you always would have but don't push her if she's not ready to talk.
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