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Why does it still hurt? adult content

A person I knew as a teenager, whom I have been looking for for decades, well I found him on Facebook. He accepted my friend request, and we have been chatting back and forth. His Mom never liked me and that was the reason we parted company. I can see respecting you Mom when you are a teenager, but NOT when you are 50 years old. It hurt just as bad now as it did then when he sent a message to no longer contact him. OUCH.

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:58 PM on Jul. 9, 2011 in Relationships

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  • What a jackass mama's boy. Obviously this guy will never change until she dies. Don't hold your breath though-bitches usually live forever lol.

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 7:00 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • He's pathetic. Sorry he's hurt you again. That really stinks. *hugs*

    Answer by judimary at 7:06 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • Perhaps it has nothing to do with his Mom, perhaps what you were sending was inappropriate in relation to his/your current marital status, etc.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 7:16 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • He is as single as I am. Momma must be holding things tight, he still lives at home.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:34 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • Wow! Loser. Move on . Be glad. Hell if he "gets" to have sex she probably controls that too! Find one that doesn't live with mommy. Those guys never grow up. Until mommy dies if she ever does , and he is left to HAVE TO. I KNOW I DATED ONE WHO WAS 43. And she controlled that guy. I'm only 31. & she told me I " had to grow up" uh no lady I have my own, house car job, out of those three your son has the job. Which is where we met. Never again. lesson learned. Lol.

    Answer by Blakesgirl31 at 7:51 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • Even after she dies and u end up together he has been a mama's boy for so long she will even be controlling everything from her grave. Move on momma!

    Answer by megclark22 at 7:55 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • Sounds like she has her claws in him eternally. Find a 'real man". Good Luck to You!

    Answer by KellyGirl_TX at 8:37 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • he is a big mamas boy get over it and move on

    Answer by diana398 at 9:07 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • wow, I'm sorry-- sounds like a real big baby to me.... time to move on, he isn't worth your time.


    Answer by roseisrose at 10:33 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

  • Move on! living at home at his age not a good sign lol

    Answer by gsae at 11:53 PM on Jul. 9, 2011

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