My friend with the epilepsy was suppose to call us to get her from the hospital today. she was raped last night by her boyfriend. they been together roughly a week. the cop took her back home, she isnt responding to my calls or texts. She did post on fb that she didnt want to be bothered and those who commented on her status showing concern she told to f** off. I dont know if she is alone or not tonight. when i talked to her ealier she said that she didnt want to be alone and was looking forward to coming over to watch movies and de-stress. I have to wonder what happened with the cops today, its not like her to shut herself out. having been raped by a stranger 7 years ago myself I kinda know what she is going through. I just wish she would let me know if she is ok.
the guy isnt in jail yet, a friend had text a bit ago and seen him out walkin down town. I thought sure he would be in jail hours ago. my thoughts are not enough evidence or she dropped the charges. the only family he has is his dad and he cant afford to pay his bills let alone bond, and knowing his dad even if he did have the money he wouldnt bail him out.
what are your thoughts as to why the guy hasnt been arrested?
when i was raped the guy was arrested within minutes after I made the report, same cop talked to her today.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:27 PM on Jul. 9, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by SC_MomofTeens at 12:43 AM on Jul. 10, 2011
I am so sorry that your friend was raped, and I am sorry that you can't reach your friend to make sure she is ok. I agree with SC MomofTeens- call the police and let them know the situation, and that you are concerned because you can't get ahold of her. They might be able to check on her and let you know what is going on. I don't know why they have not arrested him yet, maybe it is as others have mentioned- they have not caught up with him yet, or they are still processing evidence and getting the paperwork going, or maybe she dropped / did not press charges against him. I hope that your friend is ok, and that her jerk bf gets arrested soon and gets jail time for this!!!
Answer by MizLee at 1:01 AM on Jul. 10, 2011
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