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is it ok to argue with ur boyfriend all the time after havin a baby 6 months ago

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rebecca031790

Asked by rebecca031790 at 1:44 AM on Dec. 17, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Of course not! Its definitely not good for the baby to hear that all day long.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:46 AM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • Don't argue in front of the baby, or loud enough that baby can hear. That being said, having a baby is stressful. It can cause lots of stress on the new parents relationship. How long have you and your bf been together? If it hasn't been that long, it can cause even more tension.
    LolosMom

    Answer by LolosMom at 1:54 AM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • It's never ok to argue with your SO no matter if your children are 1 month, 5, 15, or non-exsistent...that's just not a healthy relationship...which in turn isn't good for children.
    a_and_j_momma

    Answer by a_and_j_momma at 2:05 AM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • No. No matter how old the children.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 2:12 AM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • It's not okay, but its normal. Lots of people have this experience. All the changes and the sleep deprivation make everyone's temper shorter and make normal problems seem much bigger. Try keeping a complaint journal. If someone has a problem they have to write it in the complaint journal. It works for us because the complaints usually come out better and less angry in writing and if you are reading it together after you have both cooled down whoever wrote it can explain better.
    NightOwlMama

    Answer by NightOwlMama at 4:23 AM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • No, you should not be arguing that much. Are you feeling like you are not in a situation that has the level of commitment that you deserve? Often in a boyfriend/girlfriend/baby relationship this will happen because bf/gf relationships are easily broken.

    GrowingMama

    Answer by GrowingMama at 5:26 AM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • fighting is never a good thing to do when you have little ears around...kids add ALOT of stress...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:38 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

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