I've been divorced for two years, my kids know I am dating, but I don't want need them to know I am having sex. My ex lives in another state, he has visitation only in the summer. (No weekend privacy) My younger son is with ex now, my 16 year old is home all summer. Last year he sometimes spent weekends at a cousin's house, but then my sis moved out of state.
So, we have a large house. Son's room is downstairs at the back, my room is up and in front. He won't hear anything. But being the darling son that he is, every now and then he comes up to talk to me early in the morning. Or sometimes comes up to say goodnight very late. There is a lock on the door at the top of the stairs. (I've never locked it before) Can I tell him not to knock if the door is locked? I think he'll figure out pretty quick why.
OK, my question is a technical one, not a moral one. We all have different views on what's OK when it comes to sex. Please don't bother bashing or judging me on this one.
This is one of those awkward "OK for me to do but not for you kid" things. I'm 44. Just met some one. I've been alone for too long, I'm ready to have sex again; but I don't expect this relationship will lead to marriage. So I don;t think I can give my son the "Mommy and John are two adults in love ...." speech. I don't want to rush into getting married again and add a stepfather to our home. Really most of my life is all about my kids. But now I need someone in my life just for me....
Any helpful suggestion?
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