I'm in a situation, and would LOVE some input! Ok, here's the deal... I've been dating this guy(13 years my senior, no kids, never been married) for 6 months. He does everything for me, we get along great, have had a couple spats, nothing major at all... A couple months back, he decided we needed to take a week long break, to see how he feels about he and I. Before that, he told me he planned his life so he didn't have kids, and that he never wanted to get married.... One week, no calls, no emails, nothing. He finally emails me after 10 days, and wanted to hang out. He came over, and proceeded to tell me, that he wants "us". 2 months into our "relationship" I was diagnosed with Cervical Cancer, and he has been there every step of the way. I have no family here, so my plans are to move to Alaska with my family while I get my health back on track since I have 3 kiddos. He told me he isn't ready for me to move in, and doesnt want to be labeled as "in a relationship". He tells my friends that he doesnt really want me to go, but if its for the best, than that's what I need to do. He told me that I can store my kids and my belongings at his house and he would slowly ship them to me, and I was going to take my car to a salvage yard since my engine is going out AGAIN (just paid 700 to have someone rebuild it). Now, as I wait for surgery, he wanted me to start staying with him, so I moved in (temporarily), he calls me his girlfriend (but doesnt allow me to state that on any of my profiles), we go everywhere together, he had me get my license mailed to his house, and told me to use his address to re-register my car, and now he tells me that he doesnt think I will be gone for more than 6 months to Alaska, so he wants me to leave him my car so he can rebuild correctly (he is a professional high-performance mechanic) while I'm gone. My question is.... Should I leave my car here for him to fix and come back to him, should I just pack up my things in a storage unit?
Im just scared that as soon as I leave (the 29th), he is going to find every way possible to forget about me, since he doesnt want to commit to a real relationship...
What should I do?
Answer by momofkids at 7:26 AM on Jul. 11, 2011
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