When we first got together my husband talked about wanting more children. I had a 20 month old and 6 week old at the time, and he had a 26 yr old. I have always dreamed of a large family, and was one of the reasons I continued on with the relationship. When we got engaged I brought up the idea of getting ourselves and checkbook ready for a baby, he said "no lets wait until after the wedding then we can plan" well the wedding came and went and I brought up the idea again...he dropped a bombshell. He said he really didnt want anymore, said it was a change of heart. Not that it changes my love for him but it does hurt me that he lied...or even changed his mind but lead me to believe he still wanted it. My oldest just turned 4 and is starting preschool this fall, my baby will be 3 in November and well...call me crazy...i really want another child (be is from my womb or another)....
so here we are...more advice than answers I guess...but...
how would/should i bring this up to my husband without hurting either of us? what do we do if i am left wanting (he says no) or I get what I want and he ends up regretting having another child?
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