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Did you get married before or after having kids?

We got married first, then got our little precious bundle of joy. How about you? And I'm not judging those of you who aren't married, people can be in love and not be married, doesn't affect me. =)


Asked by sweetvietchic at 12:24 PM on Dec. 17, 2008 in Just for Fun

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  • I was married before having sex...I remained pure for my one and only and we refrained until after the wedding.

    Answer by 3kidsatonce at 4:27 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • I was married before we conceived.

    Answer by navy-wife at 12:26 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • We got married first and had our first child one month after our second anniversary. Then 19 months later had our second.

    Answer by Carajust at 12:27 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • I actually had my first son before I got married. I was in a long term relationship that I thought was going to last. When my "EX" found out I was pregnant he left.

    My husband and I got married when my son was 14 months old and my son does not know any differently. My husband then adopted my son when he was 2. My husband and I also have 2 children together.

    Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 12:27 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • I was married but just barely. After the calculations we found out I got pregnant the week after we got married!!!

    Answer by k.alexander at 12:28 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • I now regret my choices, but I did everything backwards!

    Got pregnant, got married, got pregnant, got divorced, got pregnant,got married, went to college!

    Not recommended for anyone!

    Answer by goinginsane1 at 12:29 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • well do you mean to my first or second husband?

    Answer by jodi205 at 12:29 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • cornflakegirl3 your ex is an asshole. and your hubby sounds great! lol

    k.alexander lol we're the same! I'm not sure the exact day we conceived but it probably was a week!

    Answer by sweetvietchic at 12:30 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • i had my first child before when i was 17 and i didn't get married til i was 22 and then we had a child...who's sitting in my lap as i type this reply, lol. acts just like her father til it makes me sick.

    Answer by MommaSyrup07 at 12:31 PM on Dec. 17, 2008

  • We were together for exactly a year when I found out I was literally, it's creepy. Our one-year anniversary was on April 9th, and I found out I was pregnant on April 16th O.o

    We're not married yet. We're going to get more financial security before we tie the knot. It's not killing us to not be married, we're happy like we are :D

    Answer by caitxrawks at 12:31 PM on Dec. 17, 2008