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How to go go about finding out if my husband is still into his ex gf? he talks about her all the time and even has pictures of her in his wallet.

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mrscassidy2010

Asked by mrscassidy2010 at 7:21 PM on Jul. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Not to mention it's very disrespectful what he's doing , I'd just flat out ask him! He's not just a boyfriend, he's your husband! Shoot, those pictures should have been disposed of when you were dating!!! How would he handle it if the table was turned?

    anichols1

    Answer by anichols1 at 7:30 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • I can understand having pictures for memories. Not in your wallet though.
    emmyandlisa

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 7:50 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • If he still has pics of her and talks about her all the time, than he still must be into her. No need to ask just tell him to come straight out about it, cause like the previous poster said, what if it was the other way around, how would he feel about it.....
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 7:50 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • If that was me, those pictures would mysteriously go missing
    hazeleyezmommy

    Answer by hazeleyezmommy at 8:05 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • Thanks for the advice. He doesnt know that i had went through his wallet. He has some pictures of her on his mp3 player so i assumed if there was some on that then he had to have more thats when i looked through his wallet while he was in the shower
    mrscassidy2010

    Comment by mrscassidy2010 (original poster) at 8:11 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • Were they together long? Do they have children? I just can't imagine a situation where it's ok for him to still talk about her and have pictures in his wallet. Especially if you're married. I would sit him down and find out why he thinks it's ok to have these pictures, and ask him how he'd feel if you had pictures of an ex and talked of him often! I'm sure he wouldn't like it!
    Austinsmom35

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 9:17 AM on Jul. 12, 2011

  • rip them up and say he either loves you and leave his past behind or if he cant,then divorce his ass.
    CristaJordan

    Answer by CristaJordan at 2:02 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

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    adolphaaron

    Answer by adolphaaron at 4:03 AM on Jul. 20, 2011

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