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Why would you think his man hood would act that way?

Sometimes when me and my spouse are in the mood for sex and about to have sex sometimes his penis doesnt get up or sometimes while having sex it seems to go down it gets frustrating why would this be happening?

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Asked by mystery8307 at 8:33 PM on Jul. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Low testosterone levels, stress, there are a few of medical reasons......


    Answer by older at 8:35 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • Besides medical reasons he could also be masturbating to much..

    Answer by mari2120 at 8:45 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • My dh has this too he takes Viagra, Cialis and Levetra not at the same only on our special moments and OMG!
    Have your dh see a doctor soon. GL

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 8:52 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • Hormones, Work or money-related stress... Men go through times like this.
    The Economic crisis has affected men more than we dare to admit.

    Well, ask him what turns him on, and like a brave Amazon
    help him defy the law of gravity !

    Answer by lillyblue111 at 9:31 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • How old is your partner?

    Answer by blueberry1 at 9:36 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • I have to respectfully disagree with mari2120, "too much" masturbation does not cause erectile dysfunction. That is an old wives tale. One of the most common causes of ED is stress, but it can also be a sign of diabetes or high blood pressure.

    Answer by katiemomNY at 9:48 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • I have the exact same issue w my dh so I know exactly what Ur going thru. It is very frustrating for me too

    Answer by prettynpink343 at 10:16 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • When that happened to us, dh saw a doctor. He had extremely low testosterone levels. The doctor put him on a steroid ointment that he applies to his stomach daily. That did the trick. Encourage your dh to see a doctor. A simple blood test is all they will do.

    Answer by popzaroo at 11:35 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

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