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Okay so I'm in dating mode right now and looking for something serious. Every guy I think has potential wants in my pants and no commitment. uhhh do I look like I open my legs to just anyone? I have a rule and always have that there has to be commitment for at least a year if not longer before I give that part of myself to someone. It doesn't seem like anyone can handle that rule. I don't tell it to them until they try but my hell. I just had one guy tell me he'll give me the sex till I can find someone to be serious with... HELLO ugh where can I fine a nice decent guy!

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:37 PM on Jul. 11, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (13)
  • Have you tried Christian dating sites?
    pookiekins34

    Answer by pookiekins34 at 8:38 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • I haven't maybe I should... any suggestions as to which one?
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:40 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • I have no idea which one. Was the first thing that popped in mind when I read your question.
    pookiekins34

    Answer by pookiekins34 at 8:43 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • haha I'll google it... thanks :) it gets so old. I'm not an object don't use me like one.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:44 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • christianmingles.com
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:48 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • Yep. Really.
    Iluvautumn

    Answer by Iluvautumn at 8:50 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • A year seems a bit extreme.
    blueberry1

    Answer by blueberry1 at 9:03 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • That's the rule
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:03 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • There is one like Christian Cafe too. Idk, I knew my man for 11 years before we started dating. I slept with him the second date and we are totally happy and married.
    emmyandlisa

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 9:14 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

  • Christian Dating sounds great.
    Just a thought : some men may appear patient and loving, and go with someone else till you're available.
    So, I'd suggest you either date someone very religious who can be reserved, or if you find a great guy who
    -like most of them- wishes to get more physical, if he proves his love and ethics, you may wish to make things
    faster, including engagement & marriage !

    Good luck, I know what you go through.
    lillyblue111

    Answer by lillyblue111 at 9:29 PM on Jul. 11, 2011

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