Yesterday I posted a question about my husband receiving strange phonecalls, a woman calling our home and talking about a party she'd attend with him etc.
I've been thinking of this in mistrust and emotional pain, and this evening he had a "Congrats" balloon in his car. I felt upset cause I remembered the woman calling me about the party, so I asked him about it. He said he bought it for me, cause I expected some good business news - forgot all about it.
To punish me for my mistrust he was shouting at me, broke the balloon close to my face, and spilled the wine he said he bought for us.
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I'm lost.... I don't know what's going on, but I'm so unhappy.
... we've lost trust, and along with trust we 've lost patience, understanding, hope, i.e. the basic ingredients of love.
He insists he doesn't know the woman who called, he says he's innocent, and screams so loud.
From my point of view, he's hurt me in the past (condoms in his stuff, some intense flirting with other women in front of me, etc) so every time something "funny" happens, I remember the past and I just don't trust him.
Please help me, if he's innocent he doesn't deserve my doubts, but I've been so lonely & hurt.....
Asked by Anonymous at 9:17 PM on Jul. 11, 2011 in Relationships
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