So on May 31 2011 I had cryotherapy done and was told by the doctor to wait at least a week before sex. I had just started to talk to a guy and I was open and up front about the procedure and he seemed understanding. After two weeks he started pushing me to have sex and I finally gave in. I know It was not a good decision and I shouldn't have let him manipulate me like that. Two pumps later I am hearing "I am sorry I will make it up to you." and I am feeling almost guilty because I gave in and had sex. Its seems like he got what he wanted and disappeared. I am worried because a week after the cryo I had sex and well ended up pregnant. I found out last week I am pregnant. I called him to let him know and he suggested I get an abortion. I am against it so it wasn't even an option. Now I am going to have a third child and I am going to do it all by myself. He suggested that him and his soon to be wife whom he has known less than a month take the baby and raise it. NOT GONNA HAPPEN!
I am lost and confused and terrified to tell my mom that yet again I am pregnant and still not married or even dating anyone. I have no doubt that I can do it but right now its a little difficult to keep a positive attitude. Not only has this happened to me once but THREE TIMES the first time well yeah. The second time I was cheated on and the dude stayed with her.
Answer by mlmkjw at 10:53 PM on Jul. 11, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 10:50 PM on Jul. 11, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 10:51 PM on Jul. 11, 2011
Answer by MomOfDagJag at 10:51 PM on Jul. 11, 2011
I agree with admckenzie- i also have a daughter that is 25- i would hope that we are close enough that she would be able to come to me so that i could help her through this- she actually was having a problem last night; i will tell you what i told her- " Life Lessons are Hard; that's exactly why they are called Life Lessons.." you learn from them & move on.. your mom might be upset at first but, it will be o.k. b/c she is your mom & she will be there no matter what.. lots of luck!
Answer by daisyb at 11:04 PM on Jul. 11, 2011
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