Ok I just got remarried. My husband is wonderful with one flaw. Whenever my 14 year old daughter does something stupid, he will wait until she is out of earshot and mutter something like "stupid" or "idiot". Now, this pisses me off and hurts my feelings. I know a little about his ex stepdaughter who was teaching other girls at 13 how to give blowjobs and hooks herself. So I sat down with hubby and asked him. "Did you ever mutter to your ex wife that her kid was stupid?" He said "no, cause she's not." I said "did you ever mutter to your ex wife that her daughter was a whore?" He said "no." I said "then why is it ok to say my daughter is stupid?" He said "look. I love you and I love her very much. Sometimes she acts like she has no brains. I understand you backing her up because you are her mother but she needs to think." I got mad and said "you treat my kid one way and your ex stepdaughter another."
What should I do? Please no bashing. Besides farting, this man has very little flaws.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:01 AM on Jul. 12, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:09 AM on Jul. 12, 2011
I get pissed if my husband makes a comment about our own son so I can just imagine how PISSED you'd be because honestly there is no difference between either dd! Did he give another excuse as to why he treats them different when they are teenagers and just learning life? I hope you 2 can talk about this touchy subject
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