not too long ago, i posted about one of my best friends leaving her home because she was being severely verbally abused by her husband and the environment was not healthy for her or her kids. i didn't have room to take her in but my parents did so she's now living with them. her and her husband are still married but definitely getting a divorce at some point. they don't consider themselves married anyway.
she's talking to a new guy who's so not good for her. he's on probation for a felony drug charge (he used to sell) and has two different "baby mamas" one of which is having her baby today. he says they aren't together, but i tried to kindly remind her that guys will say anything and that she doesn't want to be involved in "baby mama drama" because what if they are together and just having problems, i don't want her to feel bad if she wrecks a home. she has already slept with the guy and didn't use protection either.
i know we all make mistakes and everything, but i'm also fearful for her that if her husband finds out he could get her for adultery. is that even possible though since they aren't living together?
i just worry about the choices she's making possibly affecting her or her kids in the long run. i know there isn't much i can do about it though other than be supportive of her and try to offer advice in a kind manner.
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