My husband has been promising me for almost 2 years that he will quit smoking, right before our DD was born he even went to a class and got a prescription. He stopped taking the prescription after less than a week, saying it was pointless because it wasn't working, even though they take at least 2 weeks to start working, but why listen to me, I only work in the medical field. Then he was just hiding it from me and I found out when I went to look for something in his car. I told him I would rather him be up front about it than lie to my face saying his isn't smoking. That was 9 months ago and he is still doing it, and every time I call him out on it, usually with a pack of his cigarettes in my hand he tells me to flush them because he doesn't want to lie to me anymore. Well after the 4th time of that I again found his hidden cigarettes this morning. He gets mad at me when he says he is going to quit and I don't say anything but give him a nod. What does he want me to say? He has broken that promise time and time again. I have started saying, "I will believe it when it actually happens." He gets all pissy at me....I am not the one telling lies and hiding things, so why does he get mad at me when I don't believe that shit? I just don't even know what to say or think. I keep telling him how bad it is for him, me, and our babies, he says he knows but then he won't follow through with taking the prescriptions. What the fuck I am supposed to do? Sorry about the language, I am just so pissed off right now! But I know what will happen when I confront him about the lies. He will say he is so sorry, tell me to get rid of the cigarettes and that he won't smoke again....until next month when I find his hidden stash again!
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