A couple of weeks ago, my 17 y/o DD met an old school friend of mine. She developed an immediate crush. Since then, she has started talking to him on a social networking website & when they saw each other at a store. I'm not concerned about the conversations as they are about movies & music (I have read them, total PG rated stuff). And this friend, while he is 18 years older than DD, is an upstanding citizen & very respectful of women & I am not worried that he would try to take advantage of my DD.
So, my question is, do I tell my friend that DD has a crush on him? Or do I let it just play itself out? The only reason I would consider telling is so that he understands that she is a young woman with sensitive feelings, not just the kid of an old friend. I feel if I told, it would give him the chance to more carefully guard his words so as not to unintentionally encourage her. But I don't want to make things awkward between any of us. Any advice would be great!
And what in the world do I do if he returns her feelings?????
Answer by tnm786 at 4:54 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
Answer by tnm786 at 4:55 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
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