My husband has a childhood friend who comes every year. And every year, they eat each and every meal out for four days, go golfing, boating, whatever and drink A LOT. It's like his free pass to come up here and go on a four day bender and act like an ass. By day two, my husband is tired out and although this guy chips in here and there, we pay for a lot (since he flies out here...not that I want to see him) including dinner, sitters and now we're waaaay broke and won't rebound for at least a month. It happens every year and my husband knows I'm annoyed. Not sure why our whole family needs to put up with this guy and my dh doesn't know how to tell this guy four days is too many or simply not to come up this year. He adds, if he goes to see him, the buddy will STILL want to come and visit up here and whoop it up. What can we say that isn't hurtful? How do you suggest two nights is more than enough with the way they act? ugh....I can't stand this.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:10 PM on Jul. 12, 2011 in Relationships
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