I'm suppose to get married next week. Well, there is this thing about my fiance. It's nothing disturbing, but we talked about it and he said he wasn't going to do it anymore. I was cleaning our room and I found something that proves he's still doing it. It's not porn, cause I could care less about porn, but it is something that bothers me. He wanted to get married before but I refused until he stopped this thing. He did for me and now I found this and I don't know what to do. I love him. And I know that loving someone means loving all of them, but I am really confused now. I want to be ok with this, but I have to figure out if I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy who is still hidng stuff from me. Any thoughts?..Answer Question
Answer by scout_mom at 5:32 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
Answer by tntmom1027 at 5:34 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
It really depends on what it is and how important it is to you. If its something that you cannot live with then you probably shouldn't vow to spend the rest of your life with him.
Answer by amazinggrace83 at 5:37 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
Answer by prettynpink343 at 5:44 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
Smoking pot isn't he? That would be a deal breaker!
Answer by Anonymous at 5:45 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
Answer by goofygalno1 at 5:47 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
Answer by wheresthewayout at 5:48 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
Answer by prettynpink343 at 5:55 PM on Jul. 12, 2011
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