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New bf and daughters relationship

I have a two year old daughter. My bf and I have been dating for almost 8 months now. Before he or his family met my daughter I made sure he knew that meeting her is a big deal and i would never let him in her life if i didnt think he was sticking around.. I guess I wanted to know how other moms felt about all this? too soon? idk. he says he wants to be there. He calls us his little famliy!

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M2B427

Asked by M2B427 at 6:35 PM on Jul. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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  • i think that you made a great choice by waiting to see how things went before he met DD. I would the same! I'm not sure I could wait 8 months...so good for you! :)
    Tarrar

    Answer by Tarrar at 6:38 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

  • Congrats, momma. You did it the right way.
    Ataemommy

    Answer by Ataemommy at 6:51 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

  • no way! go for it. they need to meet. but i agree with tarrar, i've never heard of someone dating for 8 months before introducing them to the kids. i have a feeling everything will work out for you.
    noel1978

    Answer by noel1978 at 6:52 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

  • You are awesome. If it really seems like he is forever, then a meeting may be in order.

    Good luck!
    ImaginationMama

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 6:53 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

  • Thanks :)
    M2B427

    Comment by M2B427 (original poster) at 6:56 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

  • well, honestly, it sounds like you're living together. I don't recommend that. Living together is for after you get married.
    bellejesse

    Answer by bellejesse at 7:25 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

  • nevermind above post, I guess you don't live together? couldn't tell for a second while I was replying.
    bellejesse

    Answer by bellejesse at 7:27 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

  • We are NOT living together! I live with my parents and will until I am out of college!
    M2B427

    Comment by M2B427 (original poster) at 7:27 PM on Jul. 12, 2011

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