I am having a hard time explaining this to my husband (we are newlyweds btw) and I'm not sure anyway. But lately, he's playing video games, my daughter is in her room watching tv and I'm running around like a chicken with its head cut off cleaning, doing laundry, going to the store, and changing diapers and whatever else you can think of. I've been feeling liek this for a week or so. It's like we got into a routine that I HATE. He could tell something was wrong a few minutes ago and I just said like I don't like that Addy (our DD) is always watching tv and you are playing video games all day and I'm the one doing everything. He was like well I can help clean and stuff. uhmm....it's not even about that. I mean yeah maybe a little. I guess I just get irritated that while I'm keeping the house tidy they are sitting in with their face stuck in the tv. I want to spend time with them. I don't even watch tv anymore! I almost want to unplug everything bc it's so annoying.
I don't know exactly what it is....the not so much help, tv addiction, or the stupid routine we are in!? I'm confused myself and I don't know how to explain it to him. It's his day off and I'd like to spend time with him doing whatever and I can't =/
What do I do or say to help him understand?
Btw he's not an asshole or anything. I know we are all adjusting to being married and living together. But I can't stand the way things are going!
Asked by Anonymous at 6:53 PM on Jul. 12, 2011 in Relationships
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